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Postnatal depression: signs and where to get help

Many new parents feel low. Mia explains the difference between baby blues and depression and how to get help fast.

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Postnatal mood

In short

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Baby blues

Tearfulness and mood swings in the first two weeks are common and pass.

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Postnatal depression

If low mood, anxiety or feeling unable to cope lasts more than two weeks, speak to your midwife, health visitor or GP.

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Partners too

Partners can also feel low. Help is for them as well.

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Urgent help

If you have thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, call your GP, 111 or 999 now.

Baby blues

In the first two weeks, many parents feel teary, anxious or irritable. This is called the baby blues and usually passes on its own.

Postnatal depression

About one in ten new mothers have postnatal depression. It can start any time in the first year.

Signs include low mood most days, losing interest in things, trouble bonding, feeling hopeless, and anxiety.

Anxiety and other conditions

Postnatal anxiety, OCD and post-traumatic stress after a difficult birth are common too. Rarely, a serious illness called postpartum psychosis can start suddenly in the first weeks. It is an emergency.

Getting help

Talk to your midwife, health visitor or GP. Talking therapies and medicine can help, and many are safe with breastfeeding.

Partners can get postnatal depression too, and help is there for them as well.

Based on NHS and NICE guidance on perinatal mental health. Mia teaches. Your midwife knows you best.

Sources: NHS: Postnatal depression · NICE guideline CG192: Antenatal and postnatal mental health · Mind: Perinatal mental health

Good to know

Is it my fault?

No. It is an illness, not a failure, and it is treatable.

Will treatment affect breastfeeding?

Some treatments are fine while breastfeeding. Your doctor can advise.

Can partners get it?

Yes. Help is there for partners too.

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